Thanks for your thoughtful response.  I apologize if I offended you.  I 
intended only to help resolve what I assess to be a major breakdown in 
relationships and, hence, group effectiveness. If this is not something you 
care about, or are resigned to, then I would be a codependent jerk to pursue 
the matter.  So, pending some sign of interest from you, I am prepared to leave 
the matter where it is, reflect on what you have said, and see what tomorrow 
brings.
Best wishes...............gary
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